I just joined this community but have been in physical and emotional abuse community since mid October. I see a lawyer tomorrow and I am really scared and nervous. My husband is "a great guy" to everyone else, he has his family and friends, co workers and boss all fooled. I have been keeping diaries of his behaviors, and what he hasnt found and trashed I will take to lawyer. He has physically and verbally abused me for over 4 years, he has taken the computer (I am at the library), cancelled our checking acct and stopped my atm and visa check card, taken my credit card, he has been holding my mail for 3 weeks (but denies doing anything wrong), he isnt paying the bills that come in my name, he stayed out all night twice in a week with no phone calls or explanation, it just goes on and on. He has a criminal record and I have called police (made report) when he locked me out of the house in November and 40 degrees with no shoes or coat and held our son (then one) while drunk and drove with him in the car, but he is actually trying to make ME believe that I should be the one to be scared if I divorce him because he has rich parents and a brother in the FBI. I have called a shelter and actually taken my son away for a weekend because he scares me...I could go on forever...Does anyone have any information about what I should expect, or do?
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