Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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Well,what to say.I belong to other forums,but have deliberately avoided anything to do with the divorce community.
I guess I was just trying to handle everything by myself.
But over two years later and I still talk about things-frustrating.
occasionally I've had a few meltdowns,usually after drinking.
Had another one last night.So I have to start to get to the bottom of what is going on and start dealing with this in a constructive manner or it's going to consume me.
The biggest issue is around my children,as the past few years have gone by there has been a constant slide in contact,information,visits.Everything.Now I find out that CAS is involved,I wasn't even told about this.
The story I got was it was because of how my son has been acting at school.But I suspect there's more to it than that.
Apparently when he was alone with the counsellor most of what he talked about was his anger at me and things that 'happened' while my ex-wife was at work,(the period she's talking about was when she was working midnights.While she was at work the children were asleep,so what the hell happened?)
Now don't get me wrong,I've made a lot of mistakes,and there is a lot that I have to atone for,but what I'm hearing just gets worse and worse every time I do hear something.
I'm not getting the full story and I know it,hopefully CAS getting involved is the start of getting to the truth behind everything.
I guess I was just trying to handle everything by myself.
But over two years later and I still talk about things-frustrating.
occasionally I've had a few meltdowns,usually after drinking.
Had another one last night.So I have to start to get to the bottom of what is going on and start dealing with this in a constructive manner or it's going to consume me.
The biggest issue is around my children,as the past few years have gone by there has been a constant slide in contact,information,visits.Everything.Now I find out that CAS is involved,I wasn't even told about this.
The story I got was it was because of how my son has been acting at school.But I suspect there's more to it than that.
Apparently when he was alone with the counsellor most of what he talked about was his anger at me and things that 'happened' while my ex-wife was at work,(the period she's talking about was when she was working midnights.While she was at work the children were asleep,so what the hell happened?)
Now don't get me wrong,I've made a lot of mistakes,and there is a lot that I have to atone for,but what I'm hearing just gets worse and worse every time I do hear something.
I'm not getting the full story and I know it,hopefully CAS getting involved is the start of getting to the truth behind everything.
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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Has anyone tried these supplements? Do they give MGers more quality of life by improving memory and overall well being?Thanks!Barbel
I sort of saw this coming with where things have been going in the past year.
I just hope that something positive can come from all this.
This route will be a way for me to get re-involved with the children without interference.
Every time I have gone to see them or spoken to them my ex hangs around,and does her best to get between me and my son.
This will be the start of the end of her interference and I can get re-involved with my children's lives.
I'm guessing that her cutting me off from them was the start of the problems and it has just spiralled due to her attitude.