I just joined the group, just thought i would stop in. My divorce finaled yesterday. In my state they make you stay seperated for a full year before you can be technically divorced, so it has been a long year. I left last april left him everything in the house that we purchased together. I just wanted away from him and his crazy family. He has done nothing but trash me ever since i left, i guess he has to make himself feel less rejected... if anyone has a man's perspective as to why he must go out and trash me to no extent when he is the one who is a fake person, please let me know. I staid true to who i was even after we got married, but he changed dramatically. I found out he can't do anything without his momma, his attitude changed towards my daughter and he did nothing but get us in debt.(he was a business grad in college) ummmk and still cant even manage his own money. SOunds like a winner...sorry guys , just venting. I just dont understand why the hatred towards someone who isn't showing hate towards you. Why go that route? Im a very peaceful non confrontational person, who just wants to be happy and i left because i just wasn't in love with him anymore... he was not the person that i loved when i got married. simple as that.
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