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Guys...When you buy a lady a drink at a bar what does it mean?
I've been out of the dating world for a while and NEVER go out unless I with someone. Last night while I waited for a friend to come shoot some pool, two different guys bought me drinks. I was able to say thanks across the bar to one....
Now I feel like I was really stupid and should have gone over and thanked both the guys personally. But hinde sight is always 20/20. But on the other hand I was with a friend and think once he sat down next to me it was inappropiate to someone else to buy me a drink. I don't know whether to be flattered or insulted.....
I've been out of the dating world for a while and NEVER go out unless I with someone. Last night while I waited for a friend to come shoot some pool, two different guys bought me drinks. I was able to say thanks across the bar to one....
Now I feel like I was really stupid and should have gone over and thanked both the guys personally. But hinde sight is always 20/20. But on the other hand I was with a friend and think once he sat down next to me it was inappropiate to someone else to buy me a drink. I don't know whether to be flattered or insulted.....
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I gather the friend was male? The drinks stopped after he joined you? That's fine also. Sometimes a guy just likes to buy a girl a drink, sometimes it's an ice breaker, sometimes he wants something, and sometimes he's just nice. I believe in thinking the latter if you're not interested in pursuing more. It was nice. They were nice. And a couple of free drinks, is always nice.
P.S. You are not stupid!!!
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I don't know what anything means in the dating world anymore.
JKL - thanks for the warning, but this is a place I KNOW the bartenders well I have shot pool there for over 4 years.
Just because a guy buys you a drink doesn't mean you are under any obligation to go and talk to him. What you did was fine. And really, If the one guy saw you thank him across the bar, then if he really wanted to pursue it, then he should have walked over to you and introduced himself to you.