Ok my stbx is minimally involved in the kids life. The last two years he was so involved in his internet activities and hiding affairs he had little time for us. The last several months leading up to the separation he completely neglected us for the most part. We separated and he saw his kids all of 12 hrs the first month. He hasn't taken any initiative to even learn how to make the kids food they can eat (food allergies). Had to give him a 23 page document on how to feed his kids--yea he never learned--woman's work! Well now after his lawyer kicked him in his A$$ to set up some kind of visitation he is now seeing the kids for 3 hrs between meals 7 times a month. (minimal amt of effort and work). I was getting use to this and the......last visit he fed the kids. Now my son talks about going on vacations with him. I'm not prepared for my husband to have a new girlfirend and then take his kids out on vacation? It's like he has a new life just without me. I'm home with no money to vacation hell I can't afford a baby sitter. I hope this is just lip service. I'm not ready to deal with the pain of this.
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