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Her True Colors...

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Heard her on speakerphone with the neighbor, she didnt know I was listening, what a piece of work, I feel like such an idiot, she has been stringing me along this whole time. I didnt even know who she was, the things she was saying, 5 years, I am wondering if I ever knew who she was, she is just as twisted as her mother. I have no feelings for her, I was in love with a mirage.. I know that now. I miss my daughter, but life goes on right? How did I get myself mixed up with such a crazy little girl. Just have to strap in and prepare for the ride now... I guess...

Where are the good women at, if there is such a thing?
downNout
downNout
i dont know my dad is going through the same thing and where are the good men lol. i hope you get through this im here if u need a friend or need to talk.
deleted_user
deleted_user
So sorry lost. that kind of stuff is hard to hear. good women are out there dont give up
deleted_user
deleted_user
Lost, I am asking myself the same thing about men. The funny thing is, I don't even care where they are now. I just want to be alone with me. To discover / re-discover who I am.

Isn't it odd how you learn more about a person during a breakup than at any other point in the relationship?
deleted_user
deleted_user
The toughest part for me was not losing her, but like you said, realizing the woman I loved never existed. It was a rude awakening to realize I had invested so much time and energy trying to please someone who deserves so much less!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I ask the same question, where are the good men..
deleted_user
deleted_user
women suck just like every man does sometimes
pfft
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hey - I make do as a damn good seat belt, I'm here for you! Good men and good woman are out there, just takes a few fits and starts to find them. I do believe that!
deleted_user
deleted_user
i agree. we just haven't started looking until we finish greiving for what we have lost. We will find them (god, I certainly hope so)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yeah. I understand.

The hardest part for me is realizing that just about everything that has come out of her mouth has been a lie for years. I've been in denial for a long time.
deleted_user
deleted_user
To be honest, I havent lost anything. I gained, Im actually a little relieved she is out of my life, just missing my daughter...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm missing my daughter too. For some reason, everybody thinks it's easier on men.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hey lost. I feel for you and your child. She musta been saying some shocking things. The good women will come in time.
patti22
patti22
The truth hurts.
deleted_user
deleted_user
There are good women and men out there, we just made a mistake. At some point the pain will lessen and we will move on.
deleted_user
deleted_user
good woman here...... and i have lots of other good women for company. sorry your last one wasn't Tj. there will be better ones, promise, but don't let her ruin it for the good ones.
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