OK tonight is a very good friends Bday party again at the same place as the STBX and I went to every weekend... So I am told he is going tonight, how do I deal with this.... I don't want to cause a scene but it is sooooooo very difficult to see him as I still do love the big asshole but he wants to be free....any suqqestions please help
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