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My ex has now jst said he hates me, that I make him sick and he wants nothing to do with my pregnancy but once it's born he'll chose when he wants to see it. I said he has to be involved from day 1 or never. He said I'm using the baby as a weapon and has told everyone this. He doesnt want to hear a word from me until it's born. Please help I love this guy and he's broken my heart all over again
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screw him, lose contact, hes verbally abusing u
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I agree! You need leagal help NOW! He will chose when he wants to see it! What a father! When he starts paying on a monthly basis for child support and alimoney then talk about when YOU want him to see it.
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I feel bad you are in this position. We have children and my wife also does not want a future with me anymore. It is painful to hear. You need to figure out how you are going to do this on your own. He can ask later on if he can see his child. Who knows how you will feel then. Maybe you will want him to be involved in some way. Maybe you wont. It is not worth thinking about at this time. You have a baby to plan for.
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My advise is to put father unknown on the birth cert.... Don't know if that actually still works, but it did on mine 24 years ago!
Stick to your guns and do not give in... I understand about loving these jerks,, been there and done that! I think all of us here have!
We are behind you and will be here for you when you need us!
HUGS!
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There isn't anything you can do to make him want to be with you (or the baby), but children are expensive. You need to get an attorney and find out what rights you have for support.
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as hard as it may be for you right now.....R U N!!!!!!!
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concentrate on having a healthy baby by keeping yourself emotionally and physically happy. The irony is the less concern you show forr him the more he is likely to show for you and if he doesn't then he was never worth it to begin with.I agree with dinz and Kelhurt- listen to your elders girly, girl!!!;)
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