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1toughcookie 10/27/2007

What makes a man want to give up his 11 month old twins??? His daughter from his 1st marriage ;eads me to believe that he is going to ask for his rights to be terminated. Why do that? What kind of man does that? What do I tell the babies when they ask where their dad is? What do I tell his other daughter when she wants to see them? Someone, tell me how this works. Has anyone else been through this?

deleted_user 10/27/2007

Hes a douche.

deleted_user 10/27/2007

Mine terminated. I hurt for my son. Don't know why they would do it. I think Lost is onto it though.

deleted_user 10/27/2007

I have never gone through that but I am separated and dealing with the father who doesn't care much to see his kids. I just try to tell them what they want to know in their language. It will probably be a long time before you kids ask you that question seeing as they are only 11 months old. So you have time to deal with it. If he wants to give up his rights then he is not worth even mentioning to your twins. Sorry you are going through this.

Thriver 10/27/2007

I don't think anyone can get out of child support this way, can they?

1toughcookie 10/27/2007

What do I do about their step sister? She wants to be in their lives? I don't want to deal with this crap. He should deal with her. Why do I have to be the one to explain things to her?

deleted_user 10/27/2007

I would think the only thing you could say is that you were all way better off with out the soulless bastard. Am I reading this right is he leaving you with a child from a previous relationship?

1toughcookie 10/27/2007

No, she is with her mother, but she still calls me and emails me. She wants her dad and I back together. She says that I am the best thing to ever happen to him... lol

deleted_user 10/27/2007

I don't know how a man or woman could just walk away from their children and not miss them everyday of their life. They must be heartless I guess

deleted_user 10/27/2007

You can't ask to have your responsibilities terminated. No way no how. Unless you or the sate makes the move can that happen. Where are you getting your info? More info is needed. He cannot just say, hmmm, I guess I'm done. No way.

1toughcookie 10/27/2007

Yes he can. If I agree to it and the judge will sigh off on it and yes he would get out of paying child support.

deleted_user 10/27/2007

Now, explain why in the world you would ever sign off on that?

1toughcookie 10/27/2007

How do I make him want them? How do I make him love them?

deleted_user 10/27/2007

He is a coward who does not want to take responsibility for his life and grow up.

These are the kind of men who, in the extreme, kill their pregnant wives or families thinking they can start over.

There are children in my family who were abandoned by my deadbeat brother. I was left to explain to them. I told them he suffered from a disease called depression, etc. Which was true, but also true he was an arseh__e.

deleted_user 10/27/2007

I wouldn't sign off on it, but that's me personally. That has to be one of the meanest things a person could do...deny the children he KNOWS they are his. Make him pay his child support.

1toughcookie 10/27/2007

He uses that excuse too. He has done some very crazy things.. read my journal. The first few entries would explain alot about my stbx

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