hi, i am getting ready to serve my husband of 20 yrs divorce papers, which HE wanted out, i live in our home we own of 15 yrs, he wants his name off the mortgage, but he doesnt want anything just his tools.. im looking into getting refied, but i dont think he will go for it,for i need to use his income to do so, for i have none, but it will help me with the high mortg. payment we have, and lower it so it will make it a bit easier on me so i can get some schooling and work history, for i have stayed home for 18 yrs, with the kids, now 20 and 17 yr, girls... any body with advice on how i can approach him, for he is like a stranger now, and very cruel to me,and i am very afraid of him! i would so appreciate it, i need to get the ball rolling on these things with him, so i can cover my buns... ty for all that reads this.. hugs to u
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