I had been seeing a guy I work with for around five months. Well I don't know if seeing is the right word. He called almost everyday, He took me to the Casino, and of course came over to my house for sex. I know all the problems with this relationship. He's younger than I am, he never spent the night, we never really went on a real date,he didn't answer his phone or talk to me when anyone else was around, like friends and family, and he usually didn't call on the weekends. I saw every red flag that there was and I tried to tell myself that there were no strings. Well I have a problem with that, I am just not the type of person to do no strings. I liked him. Two weeks ago he just stopped calling. I finally confronted him on it and he told me he didn't have anyone else and that if you didn't have anything to talk about why would you call. Well he had stuff to talk about two weeks ago!! How do you go from calling everyday to nothing and not know why someone would be upset. He hurt me and used me and is just acting like it is no big deal. I want to scream at him but because I work with him, I have to be nice. Well guess what I don't want to be nice. He shit on me and I can't stop crying and thinking about it. I guess I just expected more. How do I get through this? It is ridiculous to me that I am feeling this upset over someone who is so not worth it. He is a child, not a man and the most inconsiderate person I have ever met. But I still cry. I am tired of dateing men who shit on me. When I get upset over it they call me psycho. I just want answers so that I can understand and close the situation. Can someone tell me that I am not the only stupid women out there. I have two kids to take care of and I can't do that by crying on my couch.
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