Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
So I called him and said that I really thing it's not a good thing for our girls (4 and 9) to see him w/ his girlfriend sleeping over so soon (we're separated since March).
He told me he was part of a "happy couple" now and that this could only be good for the kids. I pleaded with him to respect my sense of this -- not right to do sleepovers so soon. I asked him what the big deal was -- she has 2 kids (4 and 5) and I said that one night a week they should both be able to spend time with their own children and stop the sleepover thing until we're divorced. He called me crazy and controlling and said he was calling his lawyer (who???) in the morning.
I'm so crushed. I spoke from the heart. I told him that I was really just interested in what's best for the girls and that this seeemd to send the wrong message. (I gathered that his GF does not have custody of her own children).
WTF!!!! What should I do???? I've tried playing fair. I can't send them there knowing he's shacking up w someone while my kids are there. It seems to me that we'd be sending them the wrong message about the importance of family and marriage. All I asked was that he wait until divorce (5 months from now) is final to have GF sleeping in apartment w/ my kids.
He told me he was part of a "happy couple" now and that this could only be good for the kids. I pleaded with him to respect my sense of this -- not right to do sleepovers so soon. I asked him what the big deal was -- she has 2 kids (4 and 5) and I said that one night a week they should both be able to spend time with their own children and stop the sleepover thing until we're divorced. He called me crazy and controlling and said he was calling his lawyer (who???) in the morning.
I'm so crushed. I spoke from the heart. I told him that I was really just interested in what's best for the girls and that this seeemd to send the wrong message. (I gathered that his GF does not have custody of her own children).
WTF!!!! What should I do???? I've tried playing fair. I can't send them there knowing he's shacking up w someone while my kids are there. It seems to me that we'd be sending them the wrong message about the importance of family and marriage. All I asked was that he wait until divorce (5 months from now) is final to have GF sleeping in apartment w/ my kids.
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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Has anyone tried these supplements? Do they give MGers more quality of life by improving memory and overall well being?Thanks!Barbel
They Want, They Feel, They are Gonna Get...
Jeez...When don't they have their way??? Spoiled rotten Brats.
I am so sorry. I am sorry for what you are going to have to deal with, watching your children exposed to things that You never planned on. I am sorry for your Children.
I could tell you stories, but you will have your own to tell, soon enough.
Just love your kids and listen to them. That is all you can do. Adapt to whatever comes and try to have answers.
You know what? Don't worry too much. I predict this relaitonship won't last long.