OK, I have been avoiding talking to my ex, as he wants to change the summer visitation schedule to suit his needs. I went to a lawyer last week, haven't heard back from her yet, and time is a-wastin'. Our original "agreement" (via mediation) was put into a court order in Podunk CO, and is very ambiguous. However, it states that for this summer, he is to get my daughter ONE WEEK after school lets out (it gets out June 18th, so his visitation SHOULD start on 6/25.)He is supposed to have her for 7 weeks (she is only 6, and this was based on the fact that he was also supposed to be taking my son for 2 weeks -- the ex lives out of state). I went to see a lawyer because I don't want him taking BooBoo because he has not spent more than 3 hours at a time with BooBoo, and I was always there. He doesn't KNOW BooBoo. And I don't think the kids should be separated for that long. She went to see him last summer for 5 1/2 weeks, and that was plenty long enough. I just want to split the summer! But he views it as "HIS TIME" (JACKASS!!!!!) Anyway, he is calling now, saying he is running out of time to book tickets, and he wants to get my daughter on 7/9 and bring her back on 8/27!! I need that time in August to get her ready for school!! School here starts the Tues after Labor Day. He SUCKS. He says he needs to push it to 7/9 for the pick-up because his sister will be out of town until then (he pushes my daughter off on his sister every day at 1pm when he goes to work, and he works nights.) I am SOOOO FRUSTRATED!!! The lawyer said to tell him he can pick her up 7/9, but he needs to bring her back on 8/13 as it states in the agreement. She said if he balks, remind him that HE has visitation, not HIS SISTER. What do you all think???? HELP!!!!
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