Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am starting mediation and need help and support. It feels like being drug through a knot hole backwards and I'm really not looking forward to the financial negotiation one bit. We've got the custody stuff handled and the kids are okay with it. The next 3 months are going to drag and I just want to be free. I am so much happier now. My kids are seeing a much happier mommy and they are happier too.
How do I start getting him to stay away from my house though? What are some things I can say that won't sound confrontational? He uses my internet connection and computer - that needs to stop, he uses my washer/dryer - that needs to stop. I've been nice up to now and want my privacy. How do I establish these boundaries without pissing him off? Do I bring a list with me of can't do's to the mediator? or what? Thanks.
How do I start getting him to stay away from my house though? What are some things I can say that won't sound confrontational? He uses my internet connection and computer - that needs to stop, he uses my washer/dryer - that needs to stop. I've been nice up to now and want my privacy. How do I establish these boundaries without pissing him off? Do I bring a list with me of can't do's to the mediator? or what? Thanks.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
My X used to walk in the house like he still lived here and look around the try to see if anything had changed. I went over to his place and asked to be shown around, looked at everything, hung around a little longer than necessary, and opened a couple of doors to look inside.
And I asked him not to come in any more, I said I did not feel comfortable with it.
After that, he didn't come in any more. He still tries to come up to the door and look in, but I try to minimize that by stepping outside when he drives up.