Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
As I explained I saw my hubby for the first time last night. After talking a praying, we ended up kissing and you know where that led. Then it ended with he had to go to bed and his stomach hurt. Then this morning he emails and calls me. I thought our phone conversation went well, I really did. I just thought he had to hang up. Well in thinking back, I sent him an email and asked if something upset me. I asked him what he really wanted? And told him to be true to himself. He has said last night he was happier than he had been in months and that he missed me....was it all a lie? I asked him several questions in the email so I might better understand. I thought it was a nice, calm email. Anyway, I just got a reply from him. The only thing is says is, "$900 to fix my car". My heart SANK. That is so MEAN and hurtful. I am feeling like last night was a lie and in fact our entire marriage was a lie. I HURT so bad. I feel SO USED. I know I don't deserve this....no one does. How could he? He claims he has been with no one, has no one and not even kissed anyone. I don't know what to believe. I am so hurt.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I wish you the best.
I know it's a very sad time for you and am sorry that he is hurting you more by not thinking about how this comment has made you feel.
Big hug to you dear.. hang in there.
I know its hard, because you care about him, but his companionship is not worth the abuse.
I hurt so much for you and him both please take care of yourself and your kids, and prayfully you and he both will get to a healthy place whether with each other or not.