hello i need some advice!! i have spent days reading some your replys to eachother and finially decided to join and ask for an outsiders help! my relationship of 3 years ended without notice but have since found out through a text message (from him) that there is another women involved. my problem is this. he has told his family that we broke up because of our fights! i want to tell them the truth!!!! you see he was married for 18 years and came home to find his wife in bed with another man. he was destroyed! they divorced and he is raising there 3 children. his family has this image of him as a wonderful and outstanding man and they cant stand to be in the same room as her.but i feel like i need to set them straight. i dont want to look like the bad guy! but im hurt and i want them to know the truth!!help me decide please
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