OK now don't misunderstand me my question is reading all the posts I see there was alot of cheating abusive spouses. My STBX never cheated on me well with another women...He cheated with smoking pot. I was dead set against it but he didn't care I even compromised and said OK on the weekends only, well he went out almost every night and smoked...OK so other then that we got along so great we did everything together had the best times all the time going out or vacationing. But this is the 3rd time we separated I just don't understand it, what went wrong? Was it unreasonable to ask him to stop smoking Pot? I really don't know what I'm asking because I don't understand what went wrong other then we are from 2 different worlds and I tried to bring him into my world of conformity and normalcy.I still love him and I know it's so wrong and I hope I can move forward, I don't even know if I am waiting for him to come back because I did file for divorce and he will be served this week or next week. When will I realize that I did the right thing. I saw him out saturday night and he was so drunk and stoned he couldn't even drive to his brothers he had to leave his car this is not the way a 55 yr old man should act. Everyone tells me I am so much better off but I don't see that what the heck is wrong with me. What can I do to accept this is over for good and if he tries to come back not allow him to do this to me again. I know I am better then that so will someone kick me square in the head and knock some sensse into me... OK sorry I'm rambling
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