I made a girl fall in love with me who vowed never to commit! I did everything right and was always kind and there for her!! Maybe to nice I always let her have her way! never stood up to in fear of loosing a girl I loved! she moved 3 hrs away and over the last month I suspect her seeing someone else!! I feel used and when I confront her about it she gets defensive and says she respects me more than that! I decided not to answer her calls starting today! we only talk once a day any way were both pretty independant people. she says I am the first person she loved but I feel like she is hanging on to me until she figures things out, I think I may have been smothering her! should I not talk to her? or will that blow up in my face and draw her closer to somone else? I love her ! but I want to let her know that no more desperation she is in or im gone! what should I do?
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