My husband and I have been talking divorce for awhile now because of his sex addiction.(you can read my profile to get more info) He will be sooo sure that he wants to divorce me one minute and then the next he tells me that he needs me and so on. The situation that I'm in now is that I think it might really be better to be divorced for me and for him(mainly me though),and I know he can feel that is the way I feel and he isn't responding well. I am kinda feeling detached more and more. He says stuff like, "Can't we just forget that we are mad at each other and spend the day together happy?" and whenever I leave the house to go somewhere he is always mopey and wants to know how long I'm going to be gone and says that we never get to see each other and blah blah blah. Is this typical behavior? I feel like the cycle of I-really-need-you-and-don't-want-to-divorce-you is starting again but I can't help but feel bad and question myself and my feelings. What if divorce wasn't the right choice but what is right and how do I know?
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