Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I already tried to post this once and it got lost.
Please tell me I'm not crazy.
I found out yesterday that husband had an affair 3 years ago that I suspected but remained in denial about until recently. He calls it a one-time mistake he made yet it took months to get rid of her and info I received indicates much more than a one-time mistake.
Now he's admitting to being attracted to a receptionist at work. Enjoys talking to her because he just can't talk to me. Takes lunch breaks with her frequently and rumors rampant at the office. Has been working out more and looking better than I've seen him look in a loooong time. I hear feelings in his voice when he just mentions anything to do with her and I haven't heard those feelings toward me since I cannot remember. Things have never felt worse between us to me than right now yet he says they have been this bad for a very, very long time.
Please tell me I'm not crazy.
I found out yesterday that husband had an affair 3 years ago that I suspected but remained in denial about until recently. He calls it a one-time mistake he made yet it took months to get rid of her and info I received indicates much more than a one-time mistake.
Now he's admitting to being attracted to a receptionist at work. Enjoys talking to her because he just can't talk to me. Takes lunch breaks with her frequently and rumors rampant at the office. Has been working out more and looking better than I've seen him look in a loooong time. I hear feelings in his voice when he just mentions anything to do with her and I haven't heard those feelings toward me since I cannot remember. Things have never felt worse between us to me than right now yet he says they have been this bad for a very, very long time.
deleted_user
p.s. Yet he says NOTHING has happened between the two of them and nothing was going to happen.
deleted_user
Either get the both of you to counseling or get a lawyer...he's in deep and it may be too late. I have heard if they stray once they will again. I don't know if that is true, but if he is saying it's bad and you're hair on the back of your neck is standing up...it's time to start over!
deleted_user
If it looks like a duck, and sounds like a duck...
deleted_user
Kick him to the curb. Would you ever be able to trust him? Been there... done that.
deleted_user
....and quacks like a duck, it is a DOG!
deleted_user
I got out of there. He begged me to come back but not gonna do it.
ExtrmlyFkedUp
work it out before something does happen. Tell him how you feel. Sounds like the recptionist makes him feel good, out do her. Show him how much you love him, if you make him feel sexy he wont need her.
Join the Conversation
-
theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
-
I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
