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HELP! DO YOU KNOW WHERE YOUR GOING TO?

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Why is it when you think you've got things all figured out you wake up one morning w/ the feeling that you are just some small inconpicuos spec inthe universe? I am very lucky, this week my divorce was final and I found the perfect house to buy close to my daughter. I have friends and even strangers reaching out in a way that makes me feel very lucky. I feel so guilty for feeling like this w/ so many people in so much uncertainty. Why am am taking steps backwards?Please help, I feel like that song ,"do you know where your going to? Do you like the things that life is shaowing you Etc...."
GeocacherNY
GeocacherNY
I know some paths, but the rest is still Unwritten :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4lFXy5bIiSA
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The future is unknown to all of us. As for myself I can pretty much say I know where I am NOT going. You tend to get what you want, sometimes by avoiding things you dont want. That's my philosophy for the day...lol.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rfemx5g54cw

Do you know where youre going to.
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I know for me I have had that same feeling.Grieving takes a long time. I have come to believe we dont grieve of course for the part of the relationhip that was bad but we do greive for the good part. I also think that change what ever that may be good or bad is a bit frightning.
Just take a deep breath and go on with your day. You will be ok. This is progress not perfection
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Geocacher, Unwritten is a great theme song for right now!
GeocacherNY
GeocacherNY
it's what got me through. I finally Heard all the lyrics on 8/1/06, 5 1/2 months out, and I've been doing great since.

2007 has seen the most totally awesome spring/summer for me ever.

It's been a long road though, getting from there to here, but my time is finally near :) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nUrqbh24RaU
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patti22
patti22
Love that song. So many songs have different meaning to me now. I think we all move in circles from time to time, maybe it's just what we need to do.
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oh my gosh girl, dont you dare feel guilty, celebrate, laugh, jump around, dance. you deserve goodness, everyone else that is working on this will get to their goal, you traveled the road and made it, i'm so very happy for you. i'll get to my end dreams and goals when the time is right. never feel bad about it, your smile may make someone else smile.
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