hi, i am going to court on thurs morning this week for the start of my divorce. i have an attrny and my husband just got his. i have been a stay home mom for almost 20 years, and he left me 16months ago for an open marriage, he lied and decieved me... now i have the worst anxiety and and been thru 2 female surgeries in the last 8 months. i want to stay in the house we own for 15 yrs, with my daughter that is now 17, my other is 20 and gone to college. stbx is stating in his declaration that i can stay in the house providing that i pay the mortg. which would be all of the minimum guidline spousal support, based on me getting a FT job, after not working, but being a stay home mom, and just recently working seasonal at the local comm. college, and i am now attending as to b able to work to seek gainful employment, like i backed him up for 20 yrs, and now he works for the govt. great job and benefits. I am terrified about the courts, and now all of my 3500.- attnys fees are eaten up and they now need 2500.- more. and my husband wants us to pay for our own fees.. how the hell can i do all of this. he expects me to work and finish taking care of our dying dog, house, and do all of the mother job i signed up for. anybody out there that can help calm my fears and nerves, i am frightened, and i dont know if my attny is taken me for ride. i dont know what to do...PLEASE ANYONE HELP WITH ADVICE... THANK YOU FOR TAKING THE TIME TO READ AND OR RESPOND.. SIGNED DESPERATELY SCARED!
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