Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
ok so my girlfriend is just starting a divorce and it has turned into an ugly battle already. at this point the ex has put her and 3 kids in a single bedroom apartment and keeps his 3 bdrm house to himself. he went out and got a high paid lawyer to represent him. she on the other hand hasnt worked since theyve been married and has no money or source of income for a lawyer. legal aid is to busy in her area and told her that they cant take her case on. we really dont know what to do or what to expect at this point, her first court date is the 22nd of april and she was told to get a continuance, but she needs to get child support setup so she has some money comin in for the kids. the ex falsifies his paychecks so he doesnt have to pay as much child support; also the courts still think hes payin his other ex-wife child support but he hasnt dont that for years. im 3000 miles away from her right now, and really dont know what to tell her cause im not there in person to really see what is goin on. im wondering if ne1 has gone through something lik this or maybe has sum advice on what we should be doing.
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Your having an affair with a married woman?
Your 3000 miles away? And you want to know how to help her?
OK, do you have any chain mail? because if you do I suggest you put it on because the flood gates are about to open....
(a lot of peeps here are victims of unfaithful wretches)
1) court appointed legal aid, or contingency
2) CPS, DHS or DVIS...
Womens services.....
Did he abuse her? How did he get her out of the house? Why didn't she kick him out?
Why are you involved?
Whats going on here?
No one can help you with out more info.....
ALL of the state laws regarding divorce and child support/custody are on-line for whatever state she is in. I read mine and found out that the lawyer who represented me, left out bunches of stuff that would have protected my childrens welfare.
right now hes playin superdad infront of everyone, but all he does is pick up the kids and then forget about them. he'll lock himself in his bedroom while theyre there, or go drop them off at the babysitters.
im not sure what advice can be given, but i was hoping to find some1 that maybe went through a similar situation.