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I put this in my journal earlier today and had been thinking about it, so I thought I would share......
I look at it this way, when my heart was broken it became infected. Something neosporin could not help with. It became infected with all these thoughts which as most infections do cause more pain. A wound if untreated will hurt really bad and my often times leave a scar, a reminder of where you were hurt. It may even kill you, kill your spirit, your being or even your physical life. Though I and others may never see my scar I know that it is there and that I will be reminded that I was hurt, but the good thing will be I will have healed from the pain. I stopped the various infections such as anger and bitterness from spreading and taking over and using a prescription of forgivness to keep the infection from coming back. It is an unlimited prescription and I have to take one everyday after I wake up for the rest of my life. At first it was some big pills to swallow but I change my dosage to smaller pills LOL. I don't choke anymore
I look at it this way, when my heart was broken it became infected. Something neosporin could not help with. It became infected with all these thoughts which as most infections do cause more pain. A wound if untreated will hurt really bad and my often times leave a scar, a reminder of where you were hurt. It may even kill you, kill your spirit, your being or even your physical life. Though I and others may never see my scar I know that it is there and that I will be reminded that I was hurt, but the good thing will be I will have healed from the pain. I stopped the various infections such as anger and bitterness from spreading and taking over and using a prescription of forgivness to keep the infection from coming back. It is an unlimited prescription and I have to take one everyday after I wake up for the rest of my life. At first it was some big pills to swallow but I change my dosage to smaller pills LOL. I don't choke anymore
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A way to lose me. She seems burned out with me. She said she never quit and I would have to fire her first. It is like she wants me to get over the past and my self-hate. Cannot help but think she is the one that wants it so bad.I am hurt and know I could not take losing her, but if she is burned out I will quit therapy and not get anyone else. I have trust issues with people anyway.
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I have no reason in the world to feel depressed and be struggling with depression. Why?- I have food on my table each day. Many in the world do not and I am fortunate not to have this worry- I have a wonderful little dog that is my best friend. He knows me and has been a major force in helping me get well. As he ages I feel happy I can help make his life more comfortable. Not...
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I think that it's up to us. We can keep the injury unhealed by always 'picking' at it (never putting in the past the mistakes). And we can infect it by rubbing dirt in it(often found by over involvement in the ex's life).
We can also rush to get involved with someone else and never give it the Time that it takes to heal before putting stress on it.
Or we can give it the time and medicine (counseling if needed) that it requires, and end up healthier than ever.
Our choice.
It appears that you have the attitude AND will-power, that will, one day, ALLOW you to beat this "cold-turkey"! Stay strong and positive and you WILL "overcome"! {Hugs}!