My STBX is still hanging around acting as if we are buddies. I try to shake him off without hurting his feelings or hurting my kids but he just keeps hanging around. I want a life without him constantly in it. Today our 16yo son plays baseball about 2hrs from here. My STBX asked that he ride with me because his vehicle is not working well. I know I sounded inconsiderate but I made it understood that I wasn't interested in doing that. However, I did not say no 'cause I feel bad. This is how it's always been... I feel sorry for him. I stick around and take care of him. I feel like crap!!! Any advice????
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