So we have been apart since December. He says he still loves me, but we are just not compatible anymore. He wants to be my friend. Not just say it and never see me, but actually be in my life as a friend. He expects us to be able to hang out and nothing feel weird. This to me seems more ridiculous as the days go on. I know that in all honesty I can't be his friend if we stay apart. I can't hang out with him and then be dating someone else. (Not that I am anywhere near being ready.) And there is NO way that I can watch him move on. I love him and really want to be back with him. But he doesn't. In some ways this just seems like him wanting to keep me close to make sure I'm always there to fall back on. I don't want to be that girl. I want him to want me, not settle for me. I really think that I need to break free from him for awhile. This is so hard because I do care about him, and am not the type of person to be mean or ignore someone. Help!
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