Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
The last few years I have had medical problems and have felt us growing apart because he hates illnesses. In a short period of time, I had Chron's and two ruptured discs with de-generative arthritis added to my diabetes. So instead of one chronic illness, I now had 3 and two of them incurable and hard to control.
In June of 2007, I found emails on our computer where he was communicating with young ladies (28 or so) about meeting, etc. well, he told me he was too young (56) to sit around and take care of a wife like me. Mind you, I work full time and support him, he's the house husband.
We went to counseling and I was prepared to move back in (I had moved to our daughter's) when he told me he wanted a divorce. To make a long story short, he moved another woman and her grandson into our house that same weekend. According to him, they are just friends, he is doing it so they weren't on the street. I don't believe him especially since her son told my son they were dating!
My problem is I am hurt, mad, sad, depressed, my daughter is caught in the middle and I hate that and I guess I need a safe place to vent and talk without involving her. Oh, and he wants alimony, too.
Sorry for such a long message but I just needed a place to vent. and I will use the journal as I think that will help.
In June of 2007, I found emails on our computer where he was communicating with young ladies (28 or so) about meeting, etc. well, he told me he was too young (56) to sit around and take care of a wife like me. Mind you, I work full time and support him, he's the house husband.
We went to counseling and I was prepared to move back in (I had moved to our daughter's) when he told me he wanted a divorce. To make a long story short, he moved another woman and her grandson into our house that same weekend. According to him, they are just friends, he is doing it so they weren't on the street. I don't believe him especially since her son told my son they were dating!
My problem is I am hurt, mad, sad, depressed, my daughter is caught in the middle and I hate that and I guess I need a safe place to vent and talk without involving her. Oh, and he wants alimony, too.
Sorry for such a long message but I just needed a place to vent. and I will use the journal as I think that will help.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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What an ass. Sorry, but that sounds like the type of stuff my stbx was saying when he started his affair.
It's all just excuses to make them feel like WE are the problem, so that they don't feel so guilty.
Hugs
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Hugs!
You are strong. I can tell from reading this post. You will get through this.
Also, if you do not have an attorney, get one asap. He should not get alimony imho.
I am so sorry. Hang in there. You sound like a strong person.
seriously.