My husband of 31 years told me today he wants a divorce. He says this has been coming on for two years, that he loves me, but isn't in love with me. He started seeing a counselor last year to deal with his feelings. He never told me till today that this woman told him he should divorce me because of his feelings. Since he started seeing the counselor, he met a girl online. She is 31 years old, one year older than our oldest child. He is going to move to her hometown and eventually marry her. He's already looked into a job there. I'm so scared and feel so alone and I don't know what I'm supposed to do. I can't stop crying. I've told 3 of 4 kids, I can't get ahold of the other one. They are all angry with their father and supporting me. He claims that this hasn't been planned, but I don't believe him. He's been caught in so many lies, I don't know what to believe anymore. I married this man at the age of 19. I went from my parents home to living with him. I don't know if I can live alone. I don't know if I want to live at all. I don't know what to do.
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