My STBXH is moving to FL, he's leaving tomorrow. He had his last weekend with the kids this weekend and brought them home and dropped them off and just left like it was a normal week. During the weekend he bragged to them that his girlfriend already has him a cell phone waiting down there...guess that's somehow supposed to make them feel better...The girls came home very quiet and sad...his only response to them asking why is that he has a better job waiting for him down there. My girls are broken hearted...I feel awful because I initiated this divorce. I want it. I never dreamed that their father would desert them like this. He always said that if we divorced and I moved off he would follow to stay close to the kids...lies, all lies...but I knew that already...Nothing new... He's one of the most selfish, self involved people I have ever met. In 16 years, he never put anyone else ahead of himself. Never. When I was in labor with our first child, he got his little feelings hurt cause I cussed at him during a contraction...even during child birth it was all about him....why should this be any different...His kids have always come in 2nd to him...Ugh, what a dirt bag....I could lie and say I'd change who I married but I wouldn't cause then I wouldn't have the amazing girls that I have right now. I wouldn't take anything for them...And I will NEVER leave them like he is...NEVER. No one is more important than they are...
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