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My stbx whom cheated on me and treated me terribly the last 6 months. He told me he wanted something better (girlfriend at work).Said he hadn't liked me in a LONG TIME, ect, ect ect......Well now he is now begging me to take him back. He wants his life and family back. He says that he knows what he wants NOW.
I said, NO, it's too late. He treated me so horribly; cheating and all of the hurtful and mean things that he has said and done. I just cannot get past what he has done. I will forgive him in time, but I just cannot let him back in my heart.
I feel so guilty, its just not fair!!!!! I feel bad because of the kids, and who really wants to be ALONE??? In my heart I know I don't want him back... I JUST FEEL SO GUILTY for saying NOOOO..
Please offer your thoughts...... Thanks!
I said, NO, it's too late. He treated me so horribly; cheating and all of the hurtful and mean things that he has said and done. I just cannot get past what he has done. I will forgive him in time, but I just cannot let him back in my heart.
I feel so guilty, its just not fair!!!!! I feel bad because of the kids, and who really wants to be ALONE??? In my heart I know I don't want him back... I JUST FEEL SO GUILTY for saying NOOOO..
Please offer your thoughts...... Thanks!
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I a, sure there are those who have other opinions.
The things ya'all have said is exactly what I am afraid of. Some damage just cannot be undone, ever.
Thank you again friends! Please keep it coming!
That is exactly how I feel. Thank you for putting it into I will keep repeting those words! That really helps.
Do ya'all retain any guilt from your decision not to take him/her back?
Does anyone regret NOT taking a "cheater" back?
Sounds to me like everyone thathat has taken a "begging cheater" back they have only been hurt again and again!