I have been separated 9 weeks now after 27 yrs. of marriage. My husband told me he was no longer "in love" with me anymore. I have had a very difficult time these past 9 weeks....somedays not knowing how to keep it all together....but I have done it. This past weekend I went with my daughter, sister, niece, and mom to Columbus shopping for 2 days. I get home yesterday evening to find my husband in my bed. He said he was sick with the flu...has been for 4 days. He was living at his sister's but decided that he didn't like being sick there...he wanted to be at home while sick. So, I ended up sleeping upstairs in the spare bedroom. I got up for work this morning and he's still there...he's not going into work today. He will be leaving after he is feeling better. Although, he is thinking he may be coming back soon...he said we'll talk about that when he feels better. Ok, what is wrong with this picture?? I felt so upset lastnight...but kept myself calm. Kept telling myself it wasn't worth getting worked up over. Would I have been a bitch if I would have told him to go?? Need an opinion...what does everyone think?
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