so I created an e-mail account and titled it "Resume and Interview" and he read it or the girlfriend read it and called him and read it to him (if she read it and called him I am sure she only read part of it) Anyway I said in my e-mail for him to come get his stuff and that I am moving and he will not see us again. I MAY have made it sound like I was moving to another town far away...and the first thing he asks me is where am I moving to? My answer...that really is none of your concern. Then talk about him picking up his stuff and he says i can leave a key...NOPE! I have to be there...."but I won't take your stuff.." Nope! I have to be there. Then he denied the affair again, also said that she e-mailed that to me to get me mad, that he has never cheated on me. He asked about the divorce and I said he will be served at work by a policeman when the paperwork is ready. He asked if he needed a lawyer, I said I had one so that is his decision. He said we have no money or house together...so I said then you make your own decision. I asked him if he is happy now and he turned it around on me "are you?" I said yes, actually I am happy, I am fine. He said I made the decision long ago...and I said honey you made your decision very long time ago and up until last Monday I thought we may have been able to work things out. Your girlfriends e-mail sealed the deal for me. He denies the affair, says he will find me no matter where I move, turns the whole situation around on me (or tried to anyway) and tried to break me but I didn't, I didn't cry or even get angry. He never asked what was wrong with my cell or about the disconnected number. What a strange phonecall...he seemed to be sad or worried, it was in his voice. He knows he has screwed up and that is why he treis to blame me but I am not to blame.
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