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he is rediculous!!!

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well i know my ex got his letter to go to court to finally decide how much he is gonna have to pay me for child support because he called me the other day and told me how much he just couldnt live without me, oh and mentioned that he hoped me and him could give it one more try and if we did i could drop the child support out on him. can you believe him??? for all you who knew my story in the past, ive come a long way since i started on here, i was a real mess, but anyway, that was the other day he called me to tell me that, i didnt fall for it of course, and today i saw him with "her" driving in her car, when the other day he also told me he was living back with his uncle that he loved me so much and that him and her were over with forever. can you believe this character???? tell me your thoughts!!! also i am taking a really good looking man to the child support court date and he is gonna play my man, do you think thats wrong??
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I don't think its wrong. He could be a friend or a lover..Who cares you are moving on in your life. Put your best foot forward. Make your hubby be responsible for his kids.
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Susan, I don't blame you for going after child support. They are BOTH of your kids. However, I feel that you taking OM into the court, isn't right... TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT... Why bring yourself down to "his" level? STAND UP & BE PROUD OF YOURSELF!~! You have NOTHING to PROVE to him!~! Best of luck to you!~!
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sounds like fun! Go for it
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I agree with Cat! Go looking your very best..and I do mean best. There's a line from a song "I'm a winner at a losing game"..don't play!
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Reminds me of that movie "the ex-wives club" lol
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That is a head shaking moment: it is like you hear the conmans voice for the very first time, when that voice use to be music to your ears.

I wonder how did this crazy conman con me and it is so hard to believe that I fell for that for so many months...

I understand he is a PIG, who shall wallow in his own mud, with out his money, because he needs to support his child.
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He actually sounds like a car salesman. What do I have to do to get you in this car today? He should be responsible for his kids and I believe that is a figure based on your incomes. Let the law decide and move on to something beautiful in your life!
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actually the man i am taking is someone that is just gonna pretend to be my boyfriend, i just cant wait to see the look on my ex's face when i bring him in there!!!
Thriver
Thriver
I know how you feel but don't play games at the CS hearing. It's not important how STBX feels. It's important how the judge and so forth see you. Keep your eye on the ball.
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Susan456 - as tempting as it seems, don't get caught up in the " i can't wait to ... to make them feel bad" game.

You'll just fuel him to find a way to make you feel bad. It just doesn't stop. When you inflict pain, your ex partner feels compelled to return the favor.

Just find a way to gracefully end what's bad and move on.

My 2 cents ...
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