Hello to all , First I think you all are great ! When I get a response to very much needed advise it makes me feel stronger. Well this is my problem. As you know dh and I have been living apart for a week, my choice . He calls me yesterdays and says: I need to move back home because my father is going to make things hell for you and the kids will have nothing, my father has set up an account that is just in my name and your name is not on it, each week I would write you a check from my account that you would live on and he is going to make us get a divorce because he is going to cut you off and make sure you get nothing! ( dh works for his fathers company, his father is wealthy and smart and has been through two bad marriages where he was taken for a ride) I told dh what happens happens we need to be apart and I will go back to work for extra money, He was making excuses like, well you have no time for yourself and doing everything at least if I am there you have help. I told him I was doing everything anyways when he was here so it is no different . So I called our good friend who has helped me get dh to separate and asked his advise, He said that is not like his father at all, he would not do that to you and the kids, he just wants what is best for everyone. Do our friend is going to call dh and tell him to lay off. Should I call my father in laws wife and ask what she thinks? I am thinking that if I do she will tell him what his son is saying to me and perhaps when we meet on Saturday evening maybe he will make it clear to his son that he has no plans to make my life hell and dh will shut up, I know it sounds strange but this is what he does, he turns it into I will loose everything kids will have nothing, his dad will cut his pay so I have nothing. What would you do ! Thanks for your help sorry to make it so long
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