Nothing will help that little flutter in your heart when you realize it's true!I hope to give you strength! You don't need him if he is with someone else, physically or mentally! It still hurts though. I am sorry!

I probably do not have the best sdvice, but here it goes:

She is probably uglier than you.

She has no idea what she is getting into.

And she probbaly has bad breath, too.

What a damn ass! I know, I know you want to throw up, honey. I did as well - oh I am so sorry, I know what you are now going thru. BUT IT WILL PASS! Let the anger in - let it all in. It helps so much. He DID THIS! He's the ASSHOLE! You did nothing wrong. And for those reading this post now - I'VE MET HOTPOCKET AND I CAN ASSURE YOU THAT THE OW IS UGLIER THAN HER! She's a sweetheart - and hot to boot! Get with your family - call me if you need me.

I know EXACTLY what you are feeling. When I found out...I couldn't stop gagging. I was on the phone with my x sil and she was so worried. It's devestating...stay strong...you'll need your strength. I'll be praying for you...

$400.00 phone bill IN MY NAME because its a family plan.

I hate him...with every single fiber of my being I hate him.

Take it to your attorney. I'm sure he'll have to pay for any charges over the "normal" bill. They aren't allowed to do the "excessive" spending thing...oh yes, and pull the plug on his phone.

Im not cancelling his phone until I hear from my lawyer. I don't want to get stuck with these charges and he say that its not his phone.

He conferenced called me with another cell phone on the line to try and get me to release his number. I stated, very matter of factly that I declined permission to release the number.

That didnt make him too happy. I've never been sworn at that much or called worse names in my life.

I learned one thing through all of this mess. You have to stay one step ahead at all times or your screwed. While you are suffering and in pain they are trying to figure out how much more pain they can cause you I think. You go a few days and feel okay and then wham! something comes up you weren't expecting with them and you are down again. None of this is fair and I just hope to goodness they pay for it in the end. Sorry, I've had a rough day too! Reading what you wrote ticked me off big time!

We can throw up together.

95% of the time the stbx has a lover...idiots I say. Hope he cheats on her too.

I'm sorry..

I'm pukin' over here too... same reason! Blah... pass me a mint!

I just found out last week that my ex is doing the psycho neighbor right behind me. It hurts like hell and he doesn't even care. I have been leaning on my family and friends to help me get through this rough time. In a way it might be good for us so we can really move forward without men that are so selfish and mean. We deserve nice guys who would treat us right. Good luck and I will try to help if you need it.

I hope his gf is cheating on him too and gives him an itchy, scratchy std.

What a jerk! They thrive on jerkdom! I think there is a secret handbook for cheaters so they can make our lives a living h*ll! They are right about the excessive charges. Take it to your lawyer. He will have to pay anything accessive.

That was the very same great reveal I had. They had been planning it all along. It's really hard to let that one go.