Ok, here\'s a situation for you. My stbx claims his girlfriend is just a friend. Although they spend a lot of time together, and even when he has visitation with my son, they are together. My son talks about her and he likes her, but still, my stbx tells me she is just a friend. We are getting a dissolution (this is not what I want and have told him that), the papers have been signed, we are just waiting on a court date. Last week, when my stbx dropped my son off after their visit, I opened the door to let them in, and saw her in his vehicle. I said \"what, she\'s allowed to know where I live?\", and he said he had to get my son home on time and didn\'t have time to take her home. I was so upset I was trembling and even my voice was trembling. My hands are trembling now as I\'m typing this. Well, 3 hours later he started texting me. He said he was sorry and it will never happen again. Then he texted me and asked me if I was going to respond. Then he texted me and said it wasn\'t what I was thinking, that she was just a friend, they weren\'t dating or sleeping together, and she had a boyfriend. The he texted me again saying \"come on, answer me\". I didn\'t respond, the next day he texted me again asking me if I got his messages, and telling me again he was sorry. What the heck? Are you as confused as I am? What is your thought on this? Why is he trying to get me to calm down and not be upset about this? Why does he care? He wants out, right?
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