Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Divorced after 26.5 years.. good wife btw.. 3 children. Good wife did I mention that?
I bartered a lot of things in the divorce.. put up with a lot of crap.. him in the house the whole time.. even til after the divorce..crap..trying sell the house from under me and the kids..
I gave up 20 years of spousal.. gave him my half of his pension.. etc.. and a big bag of cash.
all I asked for was one year of medical coverage.. it was not costing him anything more.. a flat $25/month for the whole family.. in a year if he meets someone...or gets married.. take me off and replace me..otherwise. let me stay on it.. he signed.. that was the only thing I asked for..
I got this blood clot in my leg a few months ago.. and the damage to my heart recently.. and well.. went to the doctor today .. got a prescription for my depression...went to the pharmacy... The Bastard cancelled me from the Plan.. I have no medical coverage.
The new cards arrived today. Him, the 3 kids.. my name is off.
He knows that I am very sick. I had to resign my job recently... I really did not need this stress today.. just made me more depressed.
Some days I really want to give up.. crawl under a rock.. give up.
I called him right away.. he acted dumb.. told him he signed the divorce papers.. agreeing to the terms...and well.. he reinstated me.. so he claims.. but.. 3 attempts tonight.. still no record of me.
Sorry.. can't sleep now.. its 11pm.. too stressed.. damnit.. I would never of done that to him. I supported him for so many years.
I bartered a lot of things in the divorce.. put up with a lot of crap.. him in the house the whole time.. even til after the divorce..crap..trying sell the house from under me and the kids..
I gave up 20 years of spousal.. gave him my half of his pension.. etc.. and a big bag of cash.
all I asked for was one year of medical coverage.. it was not costing him anything more.. a flat $25/month for the whole family.. in a year if he meets someone...or gets married.. take me off and replace me..otherwise. let me stay on it.. he signed.. that was the only thing I asked for..
I got this blood clot in my leg a few months ago.. and the damage to my heart recently.. and well.. went to the doctor today .. got a prescription for my depression...went to the pharmacy... The Bastard cancelled me from the Plan.. I have no medical coverage.
The new cards arrived today. Him, the 3 kids.. my name is off.
He knows that I am very sick. I had to resign my job recently... I really did not need this stress today.. just made me more depressed.
Some days I really want to give up.. crawl under a rock.. give up.
I called him right away.. he acted dumb.. told him he signed the divorce papers.. agreeing to the terms...and well.. he reinstated me.. so he claims.. but.. 3 attempts tonight.. still no record of me.
Sorry.. can't sleep now.. its 11pm.. too stressed.. damnit.. I would never of done that to him. I supported him for so many years.
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When nobody is interested, aloneness is the only path available. Online if you don't look like, or are, a celebrity or model, forget it. Time passes but nothing changes.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
I am so sorry. He truly sounds like a vindictive, immature jackass. I don't know what to say. I know the value of medical insurance.
Jini, I am also strapped financially, and my doctor put me on something called "PLan G". Plan G covers all mental haelth drugs. Mine are free now. I know you have a lot on your plate, but look into it. At least it will take care of a little bit of the pie.
I am so sorry to hear it.
If he signed the papers, then take him back to court and get it covered. If it is in the papers he has too. No bones about it.
Hang tough Rose, if you need me to come and kick his butt for you, just ask.
There is this saying that I like.
"What Comes Around, Goes Around."
That was terrible of him to do that to you.
karma...karma...karma...wherefore art though karma
Good Gawd...
I am also wondering how things will work after the divorce is final. IF the decree will affect the price of coverage. I am currently shopping plans, here, and thinking of just buying my own.