That is what stbx is doing now. The kids stayed with him Sunday and Monday night. I had asked him again beforehand to reconsider having them around her and told him about my counselor's advice against it. He just said he would "limit the amount of time she is with them" whatever that means. So, today when I picked the boys up from school, I asked them what they did with their dad. My 6-year-old said, "I played with OW, then I...." From the back of the van, I heard my oldest say, "SHH!!!" I asked him why he was telling his brother to shush. He said, "Because dad said not to tell you because you would get mad." Nice. He lied by omission to me about having a major, life-changing surgery, lied by omission when he failed to tell me about this woman "friend" he was spending long hours on the phone with, lied about where he was living, lied to his parents about me....now he's teaching our young children to lie. Nice. I can barely stand to look at him anymore.
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