Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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HEY EVERYONE! WELL, I DID SOMETHING REALLY STUPID BUT GOSH I FELT SO MUCH BETTER I THINK. MY DIVORCE WAS POSTPONED FOR THE SECOND TIME SINCE FEBRUARY DUE TO MY HUSBAND'S ATTORNEY NOT TURNING OVER PAPERWORK THAT HE HAD TO FILL OUT ABOUT ASSETS, ETC. ANYWAY, ALSO, SOMEONE EMAILED ME A PICTURE OF HUSBAND, HIS EX WIFE AND MY BEST FRIENDS (WELL USED TO BE) FOR ALMOST 30 YRS. THEY HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH ME ANYMORE THEY ARE TOO FAR UP HIS BUTT. NOW THEY'VE ONLY KNOWN HIM 7 YRS.
SO HERE IS THE STORY OF STUPIDITY, I WAS SO MAD THAT I WENT TO HIS WORKPLACE AND STARTED IN ON HIM ABOUT HIS LIES HE TOLD ME ETC. LOOKED AT ME AND SAID BEING WITH MY EX IS QUITE ENJOYABLE. I THEN SAID TO HIM "FOR HOW LONG" TILL YOU START LOOKING FOR SOMETHING NEW? HE LOOKED AT ME AND LAUGHED AND SAID "WELL, SHE'LL DO TILL SOMETHING BETTER COMES ALONG" AND HE SAID "HECK I THOUGHT MAYBE ME AND YOU COULD GET TOGETHER FROM TIME TO TIME AND BLEW ME A KISS"
SORRY TO SAY THIS BUT I TOTALLY SNAPPED! I HIT HIM UPSIDE THE HEAD AND THEN AIMED WHERE IT REALLY COUNTS AND HECK I FELL. HE WORKS IN A VA HOSPITAL AND GUESS WHAT ONE OF HIS JERK COWORKERS CALLED THE VA POLICE ON ME. IT TURNED OUT OKAY I LEFT. BUT I WAS SO MAD I WAS SHAKING. WHEN HE WAS SAYING THIS STUFF I JUST LOOKED AT HIM AND REALIZED THAT THIS WAS THE PERSON HE WAS ALL ALONG WE WERE TOGETHER. HE JUST PUT ON A ACT FOR ME TILL HE COULDN'T DO IT ANY LONGER.
ALSO, TOLD HIM THAT HIS BIG IDEA OF ME NOT BEING ENTITLED TO OUR ASSETS WAS A DELUSION OF HIS. TOLD HIM HE WOULD BE WORKING TIL HE WAS 90 YEARS OLD BY THE TIME MY ATTORNEY GOT THRU WITH HIM. WHEN I WAS LEAVING I SAID BETTER TELL YOUR EX WIFE TO KEEP HER CHECK BOOK HANDY YOUR GOING TO NEED IT. CALLED MY ATTORNEY & TOLD HIM WHAT HAPPENED AND HE JUST LAUGHED AND SAID WELL, YOU HAVE ALOT OF ANGER BUILT UP AND YOU JUST SNAPPED HAPPENS TO US ALL SOMETIMES. DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT.
SO JUST WHEN I THOUGHT THINGS WERE LOOKING GOOD FOR ME I DO SOMETHING SO STUPID. CAUSE I KNOW HE WILL BE TALKING ABOUT IT FOR WEEKS TO EVERYONE. HE GETS OFF ON IT. SO SORRY I BACKSLID FOR A DAY. THINKNG STRAIGHTER AND HAVE TO REALIZE THAT HE IS NOTHING BUT A LOW LIFE AND LIKE MY MOM ALWAYS TELLS ME "WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND" THANKS FOR LETTING ME SHARE THIS WITH YOU GUYS. YOU GUYS HAVE BEEN A LIFE SAVER FOR ME!
SO HERE IS THE STORY OF STUPIDITY, I WAS SO MAD THAT I WENT TO HIS WORKPLACE AND STARTED IN ON HIM ABOUT HIS LIES HE TOLD ME ETC. LOOKED AT ME AND SAID BEING WITH MY EX IS QUITE ENJOYABLE. I THEN SAID TO HIM "FOR HOW LONG" TILL YOU START LOOKING FOR SOMETHING NEW? HE LOOKED AT ME AND LAUGHED AND SAID "WELL, SHE'LL DO TILL SOMETHING BETTER COMES ALONG" AND HE SAID "HECK I THOUGHT MAYBE ME AND YOU COULD GET TOGETHER FROM TIME TO TIME AND BLEW ME A KISS"
SORRY TO SAY THIS BUT I TOTALLY SNAPPED! I HIT HIM UPSIDE THE HEAD AND THEN AIMED WHERE IT REALLY COUNTS AND HECK I FELL. HE WORKS IN A VA HOSPITAL AND GUESS WHAT ONE OF HIS JERK COWORKERS CALLED THE VA POLICE ON ME. IT TURNED OUT OKAY I LEFT. BUT I WAS SO MAD I WAS SHAKING. WHEN HE WAS SAYING THIS STUFF I JUST LOOKED AT HIM AND REALIZED THAT THIS WAS THE PERSON HE WAS ALL ALONG WE WERE TOGETHER. HE JUST PUT ON A ACT FOR ME TILL HE COULDN'T DO IT ANY LONGER.
ALSO, TOLD HIM THAT HIS BIG IDEA OF ME NOT BEING ENTITLED TO OUR ASSETS WAS A DELUSION OF HIS. TOLD HIM HE WOULD BE WORKING TIL HE WAS 90 YEARS OLD BY THE TIME MY ATTORNEY GOT THRU WITH HIM. WHEN I WAS LEAVING I SAID BETTER TELL YOUR EX WIFE TO KEEP HER CHECK BOOK HANDY YOUR GOING TO NEED IT. CALLED MY ATTORNEY & TOLD HIM WHAT HAPPENED AND HE JUST LAUGHED AND SAID WELL, YOU HAVE ALOT OF ANGER BUILT UP AND YOU JUST SNAPPED HAPPENS TO US ALL SOMETIMES. DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT.
SO JUST WHEN I THOUGHT THINGS WERE LOOKING GOOD FOR ME I DO SOMETHING SO STUPID. CAUSE I KNOW HE WILL BE TALKING ABOUT IT FOR WEEKS TO EVERYONE. HE GETS OFF ON IT. SO SORRY I BACKSLID FOR A DAY. THINKNG STRAIGHTER AND HAVE TO REALIZE THAT HE IS NOTHING BUT A LOW LIFE AND LIKE MY MOM ALWAYS TELLS ME "WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND" THANKS FOR LETTING ME SHARE THIS WITH YOU GUYS. YOU GUYS HAVE BEEN A LIFE SAVER FOR ME!
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Looks like he will be singing soprano for a while. Good for you, but be careful. It can go against you also. (2 thumbs up in my opinion)
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Good gosh girl. Violence in front of witnesses is not good. ;) Don't feel bad I would have hit him too.
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Okay you got that out of your system. Now move on. Don't beat yourself up about the slip either we all do that. I must say though that when you slip you really do it with style. I am envious
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I'm sorry. I'm laughing!! I'm very proud of you!! But don't do it again!! That was your one chance and you did good!!
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It's just a shame when people lower themselves to using their fists when perfectly good bricks are available everywhere ;)
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I think we all go thru those days. I told my girlfriend last night on the phone that I wish I could see him face-to-face, because I'd love to knock the shit out of him. She laughed & asked me what good that would do? Actually, it's so easy to forget people or blow them off when you don't see them, so it's easy for him to just shrug the kids and I off after professing his dieing love for me. I'd really like to just see him face to face and have him explain himself then.
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