Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
All the weekends seem to do for me is make me miss her. Make me wonder "what if". I hate them.
I've asked her not to contact me anymore. And that alone bothers me. Reason for telling her. All she seems to do lately is try to drum up some drama. As if it wasn't enough that she was making me miserable, but she has to cause other issues. Such as, me driving by her parents house where she is staying, and "stalking" her. I have nothing to gain by lying to you all. I have not once gone by her parent's place. Not 1 single time.
Anyway back on topic. Even though I know deep down that she is a bad person, it's all I can do not to want to see her, give her a big hug, and plant a kiss on her beautiful face.
Make it go away!
I've asked her not to contact me anymore. And that alone bothers me. Reason for telling her. All she seems to do lately is try to drum up some drama. As if it wasn't enough that she was making me miserable, but she has to cause other issues. Such as, me driving by her parents house where she is staying, and "stalking" her. I have nothing to gain by lying to you all. I have not once gone by her parent's place. Not 1 single time.
Anyway back on topic. Even though I know deep down that she is a bad person, it's all I can do not to want to see her, give her a big hug, and plant a kiss on her beautiful face.
Make it go away!
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
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My ENT sent me for more tests last week...one where they had me lie back in a chair, with blacked out goggles on so I couldn't see while they administered water into my ears one at a time ( first warm, then room-tempurature, then cold) while they video taped my eyes and asked me questions to determine how cognizant I was... This test went HORRIBLY. They were about 20 seconds or so into...
We all hold on as long as we need to. Don't let anyone tell you how long it should be for you. For some, it's just a few weeks, others take a year or more.
But once you begin to let go, it Does get better much faster. You Will be amazed.
So hang in there, no matter how it feels, it won't be forever.