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Even though i was the one who ended my marriage, i hate waking up at the weekends with no partner. it is even worse when, like this weekend the kids are with him. i have a new partner, but feel like i am so sad and needy to ask him to stay. feel so lonely and insecure all the time. i know i need to get used to being on my own before i can really feel secure with someone else. i like my own company and have loads of hobbies. i just fel so anxious right now and ma terrifed of being abandoned. has anyone else felt like this or been in this situation? please tell me it passes! What did you do? Anyone with a new partner and still feeling insecure??
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Not quite there yet I canmakeit...but I understand the feeling of being abandoned. Take a deep breath and realize you are not alone in your feelings. It takes a while for these feelings to go away. With time, I think you'll find it gets better. And hey, you can always hang out here in DS land for a while this weekend! Take care.
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Thankyou!Hope you have a good one! Hugs x
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I have been with my new partner for 1 1/2 years ,,,I still feel insecure at times,,,Keep as busy as you can,,that is how i felt comfort in being alone...
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My husband left about 5 months ago, and I don't have a new partner, so the weekends are really tough for me, being totally alone. Add a cold winter to that and it's a sucky situation.
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Sorry, I wish I could offer some words for you, but I too am searching for a way to ease the same feelings. I'm trying to immerse myself in house work and chores, but my heart isnt in it.
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