I have noticed since I left my stbx about 6 weeks ago, people are friendlier to me. I know it's got to be a relfection of how I am acting but it feels different and I keep noticing it. Even though I'm still going through a lot of pain, something must be different about me. I think I must have been a very angry or withdrawn person or something for a loooooong time. I never found people to be as friendly or talkative to me before. Now when I walk my dogs, go to the store... everywhere I go I find people being friendlier and talking to me. I've always gotten along well with my co-workers but I've noticed even more openness and friendliness from them too. It's nice. I like it. Has anyone else noticed this? (I hope it's a good sign and not that people are somehow feeling sorry for me.)
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