
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Hi...first of all this site is great and Ihave received a lot of support and though I'm only 5 weeks into this, I feel like I am starting to have more good days than bad and I don't dream about it every night anymore. I do have one part of this that just haunts me so much and I just wondered if anyone else has experienced it. My husband basically just announced one evening that he didn't love me and that he leased and place and was moving out that weekend. I have never heard from him since, wouldn't even tell me where he was moving too. I was served divorce papers over Thanksgiving weekend...still no call nothing...this makes me feel like I was so horrible that he can't even face me...like I have the plague and yet my head knows I am not horrible and Ididn't deserve this...but the rejection of never hearing anything from him and knowing how happy he is...his daughter told my daughter that she is glad they left because he was so miserable with us and now he is so happy...just makes me feel all the worse...why does he act like I don't exist?
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For him to have everything ready before he even told you he was leaving and the papers given to you so quick, he has a plan of something else he wants.
I am sorry you are going through this and it does stink not having any answers. But maybe as you start to heal, you will think abbout previous times where he wasnt so nice, and some things might come to light for you.
It is NOT you! it is him.
again, IT IS NOT YOU!
it is his guilt, his guilt and his guilt that makes him act this way.
I am sure you are not a horrible person so DON"T even go there!
you HOLD your head high because it is his loss and things will get better.
For me I prefer no contact. It avoids rubbing the OW in your face. It prevents mud slinging which only creates more hard feelings. That's what is happening to me.
Either way he's a thoughtless selfish man who you still love. I'm so sorry he has hurt you. Obviously he was to cowardly to adress his pain with you-- he just gave up and went elsewere. It's rotten. If he'll do it to you he'll do it eventually to the other women. You Deserve better than that.