i just served my husband w/divorce papers tuesday. we've been married 11 years and have 3 small children, 2 still in diapers. he's a sex addict and we've been to 5 therapists who all recommend inpatient tx. of course, he always says he'll go, then doesn't. we've been going to therapy, but now he hasn't been since november. he keeps finding excuses not to go. i told him when this all came out 8 months ago that i would stay w/him as long as he addressed this issue. even the therapist said i have done all i can, that he has to hit rock bottom and she recommended a separation which he would not give me, therefore i filed for divorce. he's mad, won't give me any money, etc. i'm a stay at home mom. i'm worried about the finances, he's a CPA w/his own firm and i know he can work the books to make it look like he makes less money. has anyone been thru this...does his addiction affect the divorce settlement ?
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