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Happy yesterday, Sad today...

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Isn't it strange how one day, you can be So HAPPY, and then the next day, so sad...

Today is one of those days where I want to crawl into a hole and stay there, when yesterday, I felt like I could take on the world....

I hate this rollercoaster ride...
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Me too Mary, me too!
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days like today make me want to quit coming here even, but that is precisely why I came on, because I figured someone could relate....
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Hey don't feel alone it happens to us all I know I have my days like that to and it makes me so mad and sad but that's life Good Luck Mary.
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right with ya sista!
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OHHHHHH how we can all relate to that. Relating sur dont cure the problema though does it. Hang tough mary for we will live to fight another day.
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I have days like that too. You are not alone. Don't think of the past think what tomorrow will be bring. Yesterday is the past. And it's okay to cry and scream or hide, it would not be human of us if we did not feet pain. HUGS!!!!
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Mary. Is this like the longest roller coaster ride in the world or what.
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Round and round and round and round..... Are we having fun yet?

Hang in there girl!
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It is funny, I was thinking exactly that as I drove home from takin the girls to school. I too am tired of all the emotional ups and downs.
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all aboard...hang on tight...don't let go, give up the fight

up and down
round we go

just scream at so and so
at least the blood is pumping...

let it flow
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I'd like to say "Enjoy the ride" but I don't think any of us are. I have good days and bad days as well. But I also have good minutes and then bad minutes. It does get exhausting. I think the trick is to accept this ride for what it is: grieving. Don't try to rationalize it. Just take the lows when they come, and try to get through them.
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you must was reading my mind today mary. i so feel like that today, i sure wish i had a magic wand.
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i too hate this rollercoaster. I had to take off work today because I just couldn't function. I can't keep doing this, I want to stand up and walk tall and be strong. I just never know how the day will play out. BUT it is up to us to choose our attitude,...easier said than done! I hope you have a better day tomorrow Marym.
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I hate it too.
I really really hate being happy one moment and sad and angry the next.
I often find that I feel the lowest after I've felt the high.
It's like I'm strong enough to deal with more of the pain, so here it comes!

But I notice that my lows are often not as low as they were. Healing? Hope so.
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Yeah, it sucks. I can be ok one second, and the next Im crying like Ive never cried before. We'll all get through it, somehow, some way.
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