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Happy Thoughts

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If you've got em, I could use em.
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I was just signing off, but since it is to do yard work, I can hang on for a few more minutes.

I start by thinking of my kids. Are they healthy? happy? In most cases they are. With that, I can handle anything.

If your husband was involved in any sort of documented criminal activity and if he involved your kids, I can't imagine any court even considering shared custody for him, much less full custody.

Hang in there. It will get better and the nightmare will end!
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You get another day. That's it. You get another day to be the best person you can be. You get another day to enjoy all the things out there to be enjoyed.
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Don't have many right now. My mind is all over the place, but I'll let you know once I get some stuff done today. I'm giving myself about 5 mins on this site, then I'm shutting off and getting back to what I need to be doing. Somehow I'll find the way to focus.

Once I do, I'll report those happy thoughts.
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I have a roof over my head, and food on my table. I have great friends ON and Off DS. I am healthy, my mom is still with me. I have pets who I love dearly. I don't have a job but that is not stopping my happy thought. Positivity reaps positivity... negativity reaps bad things all around!
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The Cubs lost the playoffs again... no World Series win this year. I know that all is right with the world!
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For those unfamiliar with the importance of Caturday (not a misspelling)

http://icanhascheezburger.com/

They update new pictures every Saturday.
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Since you are in DC, there is a book at the entrance to the wall, if you go touch it you will feel magic.
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Oh you're in DC? Tons to find in that area that is "inspiring" which might make you happier.
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A Happy Thought

A Deep Red Rose, still on the rosebush

A puppy romping on the lawn

The smell of fresh baked bread

Clean, line dried sheets
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You have a puppy? How easy it is for a puppy to pee anywhere, and we really dont get mad....maybe not a happy thought, but it makes me smile.
LisaACOA
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"This is the first day of the rest of your life. Let us rejoice and be glad in it."

Life is way too short to stay misserable for long. Unfortunately, I learned that the hard way. But, I am glad I learned it.

I am here if you need to talk.

Your friend,

Lisa
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