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How funny is this? This is the second time I've bumped into the ex-husband of the woman my ex is living with.
My ex broke up a 28 year marriage...sort of. Turns out she had her share of affairs on this guy and he's happy, now, to be rid of her. Boy what stories we swapped. How sneaky these two are is unreal and laughable.
Let's talk tacky: He showed me a note she put in his BIRTHDAY card (which was 10/11) that apologized and said he's always been a good provider but it's just not enough...and she doesn't know where her new life will take her. How tacky is all that to put that in the guy's freakin birthday card?!?!?!??? Well, my ex will surely take her down like a stone. He hasn't got a pot to piss in. I hope their love is strong enough to see them through because they won't have much more than that to carry them.
They're already hiding secrets from each other. For instance, she has no idea my ex has 2 years of IRS investigations going on for tax returns. His ex-wife before me never claimed the alimony. When he got divorced the Property Settlement Agreement said he had to pay alimony until his youngest daughter turns 18. Well guess what? If it's contingent in any way, shape or form to a child, they consider it support and he can't claim the $9100 beans each year. LMFAO!!!! See, the lawyer should have put alimony to the year 2012..but he didn't and the accountant didn't properly inform him of the Federal Tax law. Yeah, the hook is I filed a joint return but my out is what's called an Injured Spouse Form.
My ex broke up a 28 year marriage...sort of. Turns out she had her share of affairs on this guy and he's happy, now, to be rid of her. Boy what stories we swapped. How sneaky these two are is unreal and laughable.
Let's talk tacky: He showed me a note she put in his BIRTHDAY card (which was 10/11) that apologized and said he's always been a good provider but it's just not enough...and she doesn't know where her new life will take her. How tacky is all that to put that in the guy's freakin birthday card?!?!?!??? Well, my ex will surely take her down like a stone. He hasn't got a pot to piss in. I hope their love is strong enough to see them through because they won't have much more than that to carry them.
They're already hiding secrets from each other. For instance, she has no idea my ex has 2 years of IRS investigations going on for tax returns. His ex-wife before me never claimed the alimony. When he got divorced the Property Settlement Agreement said he had to pay alimony until his youngest daughter turns 18. Well guess what? If it's contingent in any way, shape or form to a child, they consider it support and he can't claim the $9100 beans each year. LMFAO!!!! See, the lawyer should have put alimony to the year 2012..but he didn't and the accountant didn't properly inform him of the Federal Tax law. Yeah, the hook is I filed a joint return but my out is what's called an Injured Spouse Form.
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these are the things i just love to see, they think they can just walk away and into someone else's arms and live happily ever after, uhhhh hello reality check. sucks to be them.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
