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Hang in There - PC?

deleted_user
deleted_user
Does anyone else conjure up images of a noose and ending it all, while you are in a depressed state when you receive this "harmless" advice?

maybe it's just me.... :)
diemjs
diemjs
I have felt like this in the past, and i actually have tried to do something about it...not seriously, though. it does get better. even as i sit here wondering what the hell went wrong, i am begining to seriously forget this man who was once so important in my life. please hang in there...pun intended...and smile, we are here for you and if you need me, i will always be here for you:)
deleted_user
deleted_user
No, I've never had that image when I've heard those words. But I will now! :) Someone actually just said that to me today.

Rob, you can be certain that I will be thinking of you everytime I hear "Hang in there". Thanks for the new, crazy image.

P.S. I know this can be a serious topic but I don't think Rob meant it to be so serious-- did you? I hope not. I wouldn't want to make light of a serious topic.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Not a noose, but just something to make me sleep and not have to hurt anymore. Thankfully I know I wont because I would never do that to my children. It wouldn't help anyone, but relieve the pain for me. I can't be that selfish. Rob I wish there were easy answers, I sincerely do, because I could use some right now.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have felt down and thought to myself what is the point and then I think there is no way in hell I am going to give the beatch the satisfaction, no way in hell.
Che2
Che2
I don't think I will make that comment to anyone again..lol

No..hadn't thought of that.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have heard the best revenge is living well, maybe you can apply that.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have to admit I am guilty of writing that phrase from time to time. Never thought of it that way!!! I will definitely think of another way to express that sentiment.
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