I picked up my boys on Christmas Eve and all seemed well. An hour after dropping them off my X called me and started telling me who she didn't want the boys around and how my oldest (7yr old) was crying due to having a female friend at my mom's house. I told her that it was probably from her pumping him for information and threatening to take christmas away, she has done this in the past. While they were at my mom's house they were happy and playing around. My oldest even held my hand on the way back to his mom's house. She put me down as a dead beat dad and called my female friend a whore. I remained calm and told her it was a little late to be dealing with details of the divorce since court finalized on 12-20-07. I feel I am going to experience many more times of this. Any suggestion on what I should do to handle this? and dealing with worrys for my children?
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