One thing that has been driving me absolutely insane about my husband is his inability to understand and participate in the daily functionings of our household. I really want to know what the average guy can do. My dad and brothers can do it all, my husband's dad does nothing but he was rich. My husband has a short list of chores-like taking out garbage, mowing grass, and he does dishes every day or so-ok crap, that's all he's been doing. He does a lot with the kids, homework, coaches football, and he works 10 hour days at least. I work too as a teacher. Anyway- he won't do anything unless I ask, or the kids ask. It never occurs to him to do anything unless I ask. We've been arguing about this for 20 freaking years and I'm trying to make it work, but whenever I say I need more help he says he's tired, or he tells me what he does do. I do everything- shop, cook, all the cleaning, laundry, decorating, putting things together, fixing things around the house, fixing up the yard, planning of everything, I take care of my own car, he's domestically retarded, he really is. If we were rich I'd get a maid and stay home and it wouldn't be as big an issue. I just want some effort and initiation on his part!
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